What is the correct protocol for buying drinks at a first meeting?

20 June 2006

I just got back from a first meeting, (If he ever speaks to me again I will let you know what I thought, although I will was so shy and nervous I suspect he thought I was not into the meeting...), and on the way home I realised that I did not offer to pay for my drinks, or even a round at any stage. Nor for the snacks we ate. Surely this is very bad manners, not to mention some breach of protocol?

What should I have done?
Thanks...

I should have offered to buy a round of drinks...
I should have offered to pay for the snacks...
I should have offered to pay for half of the bill...
I should not worry; he would have asked if he wanted you to pay...
It's okay, at a first meeting; it is usual for the man to but the drinks...
You silly woman, at a first meeting, it is usual for the woman to buy the drinks...
Don't worry, it depends on the situation, and it was probably OK...
Next time, you can buy the drinks...
You suck - he will never want to see you again... Ha ha - you worry too much...